"Is your acceptance by God based on your own goodness or on His goodness and mercy?" This was a quote I heard this past weekend at a homeschool convention in Nashville. It really struck home with me....because it was followed up with this question: "In light of how you view your acceptance by God, how do you parent your children?" Ouch. Do I parent my children as God parents me? Do I readily give grace and mercy, love and compassion when they miserably fail--just as God does for me? I am so very sorry to say that often I don't. When the conference speaker asked that question, I cringed inside, hearing my own voice saying things like, "Well, I'm glad you're sorry, but next time....." or "If you would/wouldn't have done such-n-such then......" I need to learn to say more readily, "I forgive you, I love you...no matter what!" Not that I mean to say I think of my love for my children as conditi...